Everyone needs boundaries in life. Boundaries let you know what you can and can't do. Boundaries are like a great big snugly blanket tucked around you making you feel safe, secure and confident. This is the same for children.

There are 4 different types of boundaries, the first are constricting boundaries, these are rigid, over strict and can cause a lack of self control. Although they are intended to protect, they often get in the way of a child forming a good relationship with the boundary maker. The second are absent boundaries, this can be really scary for children and could lead to them making wrong decisions as they have no guidance to what is right and wrong. The third are inconsistent, you are allowed to do something one day and get told off for it the next day, children never know what to expect from their care giver which can end up making every day life a constant battle. Then there is the fourth sort of boundaries, consistent boundaries, these are the ones that help children to grow and thrive, they build trust, they reduce confusion, they protect the wellbeing of both parents and children and they model healthy behaviour. 
 

We all want our children to feel safe, loved and respected and fair, consistent boundaries go a long way to supporting this. 

Our thought for the week is:

Love yourself enough to set boundaries, your time and energy are precious.

If you have a parenting concern, you can contact Mrs Easty via the school office - admin@burlingtoni.org.uk